In intimate relationships, there is a component that is often overlooked. This component is critical thinking. Critical thinking is analyzing, evaluating, and making judgments based on evidence. The challenge for some is the feel-good feelings that come with the relationships. Also, the motivation of the person to maintain the relationship. There are red flags, signs, and behaviors that a person displays in the relationship that need additional exploration. Critical thinking and basic common sense disappear. A person, even the most manipulative person, will tell you who they are. Look at the evidence; ask questions such as: "What is your relationship with your father, mother, or children?", "Who are your closest friends?", "What would you do if....?" Whether you are dating, engaged, or even married, line up what you hear against the behavior. Remember, behavior doesn't lie. Believe them.
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